Six tetranuclear 3d-4f single-molecule magnet (SMM) complexes formed using N-n-butyldiethanolamine and N-methyldiethanolamine in conjunction with ortho- and parasubstituted benzoic acid and hexafluoroacetoacetone ligands yield two families, both having a butterfly metallic core. The first consists of four complexes of type {(Co2Dy2III)-Dy-III} and {(Co2CoDyIII)-Co-III-Dy-II} using N-n-butyldiethanolamine with variation of the carboxylate ligand. The anisotropy barriers are 80 cm(-1), (77 and 96 cm(-1) two relaxation protesses occur), 117 and 88 cm(-1), respectively, each following a relaxation mechanism from a single Dy-III ion. The second family consists of a {(Co2Dy2III)-Dy-III}and a {(Cr2Dy2III)-Dy-III} complex, from the ligand combination of N-methyldiethanolamine and hexafluoro-acetylacetone. Both show SMM behavior, the Co-III example displaying an anisotropy barrier of 23 cm(-1). The Cr-III complex displays a barrier of 28 cm(-1), with longer relaxation and open hysteresis loops, the latter of which is not seen in the Com case. This is a consequence of strong Dy-III-Cr-III magnetic interactions, with the relaxation arising from the electronic structure of the whole complex and not from a single Diu ion. The results suggest that the presence of strong exchange interactions lead to significantly longer relaxation times than in isostructural complexes where the exchange is weak. The study also suggests that electron-withdrawing groups on both bridging (carboxylate) and terminal (beta-diketonate) ligands enhance the anisotropy barrier.