We develop the self-consistent sum of dipoles (SCSD) theory for the purpose of recovering charge densities present on nanostructures using scanning force microscope (SFM) force-separation experiments. The dielectric probe is discretized into volume elements characterized by their atomic polarizabilities. Magnitudes of the induced dipole in each element are calculated based on discrete charges placed on the surfaces, dipole dipole interactions, and dielectric and ionic properties of the surrounding medium. We perform two model model comparisons, one with a macroscopic dielectric sphere and one with a nanocluster of silicon atoms. In both cases, using a single adjustable parameter, our SCSD theory agrees with the accepted theories to better than 99%. Force separation curves between a silicon nitride probe and the basal plane of highly oriented pyrolytic graphite in nine ionic concentration and pH combinations were fit with a root-mean-square error of 3.6 pN, an improvement over the 12 pN error obtained using the Derjaguin approximation. These results suggest that the SCSD will be useful in modeling SFM force separation data to obtain spatially varying charge densities on surfaces with complex geometries.